As bad as it is to live in the past, it’s almost worse to disregard it entirely. It’s important to acknowledge that it’s shaped you into the person you are today, but you have to do that without getting stuck. You somehow have to to find a balance between the two. I think it was my dad who pointed this out to me, and I’m almost mad at him for it, because, holy crap, it’s the hardest thing ever to actually DO.
my class got cancelled yesterday and it was my birthday and all i could think of to do was stay home and do this.